Khutbas by Imam Habib

17th May 2013
On Shia
12th May 2013
On Contentment and Sabr
5th May 2013
On Fear of Allah and Courage
26th April 2013
On Takin Pride in the Deen
19th April 2013
On Having Good Opinion
12th April 2013
On Contentment and Sabr
5th April 2013
On Wealth and Shukr
29th March 2013
On Keeping Dunya From the Heart
13th March 2013
On Keeping Dunya from the Heart
22nd March 2013
On Importance of Prayer on Prophet
15th March 2013
On Riba
8th March 2013
On Zakat
1st March 2013
On Importance of Amirate
15th February 2013
On Doctrine of Human Rights
11th January 2013
On Praying in the Mosque
4th January 2013
On Value of Shahadatayn
28th December 2012
On Rank of Prophet
21st December 2012
On Contracts
14th December 2012
On Keeping Company
7th December 2012
On Knowledge and Hadith
30th November 2012
On Contracts and Rules of Business
23rd November 2012
On Celebration and Ashura
09th November 2012
On Dawa
2nd November 2012
On Ma'ruf and Munkar
26th October 2012
On Sacrifice
19th October 2012
On Arafat and Days of DhulHijja
12th October 2012
On Contracts
5th October 2012
On Contracts
28th September 2012
On Hajj
21st September 2012
On insults against the Prophet (pbuh)
27th April 2012
On Safe Haven
20th April 2012
On Acting on Knowledge
13th April 2012
On Acting on Knowledge
30th March 2012
On Syrian Crisis
23rd March 2012
On Husn adh-Dhann
16th March 2012
On Thanks to Allah
25th February 2012
On Restoration of Zakat
17th February 2012
On Puting Sunna into Practice
10th February 2010
On Love of Rasul and Sahaba
27th January 2012
On Halal Certification Fiasco
21st October 2011
On Ziyarat an-Nabi
14th October 2011
On Obligations and Benefits of Hajj
11th September 2011
On Hadith
9th September 2011
On Amr bil-ma'ruf
2nd September 2011
On Ukhuwwa
31st August 2011
On Eid al-Fitr
26th August 2011
On Final Part of Ramadan
19th August 2011
On Badr
12th August 2011
On Essential Elements of Zakat
5th August 2011
On Reciting and Pondering Qur'an
29th July 2011
On Fiqh of Fasting
22nd July 2011
On Special Nature of Ramadan
15th July 2011
On Honouring Contracts
8th July 2011
O Importance of Time
3rd June 2011
On Ghulw
20th May 2011
On Dhikr
13th May 2011
On Husn adh-Dhann
6th May 2011
On the Situation in Syria
29th April 2011
On Model for Success
22nd April 2011
On Atheism and Riba
15th April 2011
On Human Rights
8th April 2011
On Mahdism
1st April 2011
On Biad ash-Sham
25th March 2011
On Anger
18th March 2011
On Democracy
11th March 2011
On Provision
4th March 2011
On Following Sunna
25th February 2011
On Shafa'a
18th February 2011
On Qualities of the Messenger
11th February 2011
On Respect due to the Prophet
4th February 2011
On Mawlid
28th January 2011
On Companionship
21st January 2011
On Amirate
14th January 2011
On Zakat
7th January 2011
On Money
31st December 2010
On Riba
24th December 2010
On Death and Suicide Bombing
17th December 2010
On Sabr
10th December 2010
On Muharram and Ashura
3rd December 2010
On Hijra
26th November 2010
On salat on the Prophet
19th November 2010
On Visiting the Prophet's grave
17th November 2010
Eid al-Adha
12th November 2010
On Hajj
5th November 2010
On Love for the Prophet
29th October 2010
On Taqwa
22nd October 2010
On Time for Action
1st October 2010
On Dhikr of Allah
24th September 2010
On The Last Day
17th September 2010
On Thankfulness
10th September 2010
On Fitr
3rd September 2010
On the Tongue
27th August 2010
On Last Ten Days
13th August 2010
On Qur'an
6th August 2010
On Rulings of Ramadan
30th July 2010
On Qualities of Ramadan
23rd July 2010
On Nisf Sha'ban
9th July 2010
On Secrets of Prayer
2nd July 2010
On Isra and Mi'raj
25th June 2010
On Death
18th June 2010
On True Role of Ulema
11th June 2010
On Adab to Mosque
4th June 2010
On Brotherhood
28th May 2010
On Causes of Allah's Help
21st May 2010
On Excess in the Deen
14th May 2010
On Rizq
7th May 2010
On Commanding Right
30th April 2010
On Tawba
23rd April 2010
On Da'wa
16th April 2010
On Importance of Action
9th April 2010
On Waqf
2nd April 2010
On Market Place
26th March 2010
On Key to Healthy Society
19th March 2010
On Generosity
12th March 2010
On Intercession
5th March 2010
On Praye on the Prophet
26th February 2010
On love of the Prophet
19th February 2010
On the Mawlid
12th February 2010
On Importance of Zakat
5th February 2009
On Aquiring Knoledge
29th January 2010
On Leadership
22nd of January 2010
On Hadith and Amal
15th January 2010
On Following Sunna
8th January 2010
On Status of Companions
1st January 2010
On Arrogance of Nations
25th December 2009
On Qualities of Rasul
18th December 2009
On Hijra
11th December 2009
On Godlessness
4th December 2009
On Good Opinion
27th November 2009
On Rejoicing
20th November 2009
10 Days Dhul Hijja
13th November 2009
On Halal Certification
6th November 2009
On Prayer
30th October 2009
On Shahadatayn
23rd October 2009
On Taqlid
16th October 2009
On Safar
2nd October 2009
Honouring Guests
25th September 2009
Controlling Anger
20th September 2009
Eid al-Fitr
18th September 2009
On End of Ramadan
11th September 2009
On Last Ten Days
4th September 2009
Birr al-Walidayn
28th August 2009
On Contracts
21st August 2009
Rulings of Ramadan
14th August 2009
Qualities of Ramadan
7th August 2009
Khutba on 'Ilm
6th August 2009
Nisf Sha'ban Talk
31st July 2009
On Kasb
24th July 2009
On Bid'a
17th July 2009
On Isra and Mi'raj
10th July 2009
On Shukr
3rd July 2009
On Sabr
26th June 2009
On Time
19th June 2009
On Suhba
12th June 2009
On the Jama'at
5th June 2009
On the Tongue
29th May 2009
On the Qur'an
22nd May 2009
On the Jumu'a

Khutba on Ukhuwwa

الحمد لله، الحمد لله الذي آخى بين المومنين، وألّف بين قلوبهم وجعلهم في ربهم متحابّين، نحمده تعالى ونستعينه، ونشكره تعالى ونستغفره ونستغيثه، نعوذ بالله من شرور أنفسنا ومن سيئات أعمالنا، من يهد الله فهو المهتد ومن يضلل فلن تجد له وليا مرشدا، ونشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك و له الحمد، يحيي ويميت، بيده الخير، وهو على كل شيء قدير،  ونشهد أن سيدنا و مولانا محمداً عبده ورسوله، وحبيبه وصفيه، بلغ الرسالة وأدٌى الأمانة ونصح الأمة، النبي الأمي الذي أرسله الله بالهدى والدين الحق، بشيرا ونذيرا بين يدي الساعة، صلى الله عليه وسلم وعلى آله وأصحابه ومن تبعهم بإحسان إلى يوم الدين.
أما بعد! فيا عباد الله اتقوا الله حق تقاته ولا تموتن إلا وأنتم مسلمون. يأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله وقولوا قولا سديدا يصلح لكم أعمالكم ويغفر لكم ذنوبكم. ومن يطع الله ورسوله فقد فاز فوزا عظيما. اتقوا الله فيما أمر وانتهوا عما نها عنه وزجر.

    The human being in his natural fitra state is a communal animal, not a solitary one. A part of him yearns for the company of others and feels incomplete so long as he is alone. When given the choice, human beings nearly always choose to live together, forming villages, towns, cities and nations, and forming close links, relationships and bonds to others.
These relationships formed with others may be based on any number of things - living together, working together, or having shared interests or shared beliefs, and they are the glue that holds any society together. And yet today, they are starting to disintegrate and dissolve. Despite the fact that more and more people are choosing to live in close proximity to one another, despite the fact that single cities now contain more people than entire countries ever did, people have never been more isolated. Indeed, many go entire days without any sort of meaningful interaction with another human being, conducting all their shopping in faceless supermarkets and all the rest of their time in their homes in front of their TV sets, with their doors padlocked and their windows barred. They need human company, but they trust no one and fear every one. The internet becomes the sole safe outlet. This is the society that we live in.
    And that is because the majority of the relations that we do form do not have haqq as their basis - they instead tend to be based on some transient aspect of this world. They are based on something which fades and so they inevitably fade. The bond that linked the French revolutionaries together seemed profound and unbreakable, but within a few short years had morphed into hatred, distrust and betrayal. The link that binds work colleagues often disappears the moment one of them is promoted and the other is not. And the same is true for any relationship not based on something true, on something real, even when it appears to us to be completely solid, like that which links the Jews together. Allah says,

تَحْسَبُهُمْ جَمِيعاً وَقُلُوبُهُمْ شَتَّىٰ

    the translation of which is, “You consider them united but their hearts are scattered wide.”. They might appear to be united and to be part of a single body, but they are not. Their hearts are not truly united, for that which binds them is baatil, no more real or substantial than the froth of the sea, and no matter how rich or influential they are or how much they spend, they never will be. True unity is only possible for those whose hearts have eschewed falsehood in favour of truth. True unity is only possible between those whose hearts are linked by Allah and who hold firm to the rope of Allah. Allah says,

هُوَ الَّذِي أَيَّدَكَ بِنَصْرِهِ وَبِالْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ لَوْ أَنْفَقْتَ مَا فِي الْأَرْضِ جَمِيعًا مَا أَلَّفْتَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ وَلَكِنَّ اللَّهَ أَلَّفَ بَيْنَهُمْ

    the translation of which is, “It is He who supported you with His help and with the believers, and unified their hearts. Even if you had spent everything on the earth, you could not have unified their hearts. But Allah has unified them.” The proof of that is readily apparent if we look at the Ansar. Most of us think of them as a single entity, the people of Madina who welcomed the emigrants from Makka into their city and homes, but the truth of the matter is that they were made of two tribal groupings, the Aws and the Khazraj, who had hated and fought each other for generations. So great had been their hate for one another that they would often seize on the slightest excuse to take up arms against each other. Their ‘asabiyya to their respective tribes had made them implacable enemies, but Allah gave them a new ’asabiyya, one formulated not on any familial ties or pre-existent tribal alliances but on a mutual love of Allah and His Messenger. And, instead of enemies, they became brothers in the true sense of the word, ready to drop everything to help one another. Allah says,

وَاذْكُرُوا نِعْمَةَ اللَّهِ عَلَيْكُمْ إِذْ كُنْتُمْ أَعْدَاءً فَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِكُمْ فَأَصْبَحْتُمْ بِنِعْمَتِهِ إِخْوَانًا

    the translation of which is, “Remember Allah's blessing to you when you were enemies and He joined your hearts together so that you became brothers by His blessing.” This bond, placed by Allah in the hearts of the believers, is so powerful that it even supercedes that of family. Your fellow Muslim is more your brother than a man who shares the same parents as you but has not entered the deen. For the link between members of a family often feels strain in troubled and difficult times while that between members of a Muslim ever grows stronger. And that is especially true in the modern age when dysfunction has become the rule rather than the exception. And that is why we saw the Companions in the early battles leaping to protect their fellow Muslims from members their own families, fighting and even killing them if necessary. Indeed Abu Bakr said that if he were to have met his own father, Abu Quhafah on the battlefield, and Abu Bakr was a very dutiful son who had a great love for his parents, he would have fought him. For the love Allah had placed in his hearts for Allah, the Messengers and the believers was far greater. Allah says,
وَالَّذِينَ آَمَنُوا أَشَدُّ حُبًّا لِلَّهِ

    the translation of which is, “Those who have iman have greater love for Allah.” They knew that the only brotherhood, the only friendship that would be of benefit to them in the long run, was that based upon love of Allah. They knew that their fellow believers had their backs, even on that day when each and everyone stands alone before our Lord and our brothers, mothers, fathers, partners and children run from us. For Allah says in surat az-Zukhruf,

الْأَخِلَّاءُ يَوْمَئِذٍ بَعْضُهُمْ لِبَعْضٍ عَدُوٌّ إِلَّا الْمُتَّقِينَ

    the translation of which is, “On that Day the closest friends will be enemies to one another - except for those who have taqwa.” Your friendship with those who have taqwa, those who believe, this bond that Allah has placed between us, will be the only one that lasts into the Next Life and does not fade when everything else of this world fades away. And the more we love Allah and His Messenger, and the more we work together to obey Him and put His commands into practice, the stronger that bond becomes. Until we once again become that unstoppable band of brothers that swept aside Roman and Persian empires that had stood for centuries in a short number of years and lived to see Islam established across a land mass stretching from Morocco to China. Until we once again sees Allah’s deen uppermost in the land.

أقول قولي هذا وأستغفر الله لي ولكم ولسائر المسلمين من كل ذنب فاستغفروه إنه هو الغفور الرَّحيم
الحمد لله الحمد لله رب العالمين، وأشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له وأشهد أن محمداً عبده ورسوله، صلى الله وسلم وبارك عليه وعلى آله وصحبه، والتابعين وتابعي التابعين ومن تبعهم بإحسان إلى يوم الدين. أما بعد! فيأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله ما استطعتم واسمعوا وأطيعوا وأنفقوا خيرا لأنفسكم. يا عباد الله أوصيكم وإياي بتقوى الله وطاعته وأحذركم وإياي عن معصيته ومخالفته.

    True brotherhood, ‘ukhuwwa’, the brotherhood that we strive for and which existed among the Companions is not just some concept to which we pay lip service. It is not enough to simply refer to someone as your brother while disregarding all the duties of brotherhood. And that is the trap that too many of us have fallen into in a superficial age where labels have become all important, in an age where what you are called is more important than what you do. Go into any Muslim community and see for yourself. How often do we hear people address one another as akhi or ukhti but failing to do anything significant for them when the chips are down? How is that brotherhood? It is totally unnatural and unreal. Do real brothers and sisters address each other by their family connection, saying, ‘Brother, I am going to do this’ or ‘Sister, I am going to do that’? No, they take their connection as given, they know who they are and act towards one another accordingly.
    Well, as we have mentioned, the connection between Muslims is stronger even than family, so why should we address our Muslim brothers and sisters in that way? And, moreover, it is disrespectful - you do not know their station with Allah nor their station in society, and yet you insist on bringing them down to your level and making them the equal of yourself. Would you address your father as akhi? No, but he is your brother in the deen. Would you address your mother as ukhti? No, but she is your sister in the deen. Similarly, you should not address your elders nor your teachers with akhi, but rather use a term of respect. And nor should you use akhi for your youngers, but rather make use of a term of mercy like son or nephew. And as for those who are your same age, if you think highly of them and assume they are further along the path than yourself, you would never have the temerity to call them akhi. Rather, call them ‘sidi - my master’ instead, for that way you protect yourself from ujb and bad opinion.
    That is the heart, that is the first part of true brotherhood, preferring your brother to yourself. And not just when it comes to the opinion you hold of him, but also when it comes to your material possessions. For true brothers share what they have, both in times of hardship and those of ease. This was best demonstrated by the Ansar, who when the Muhajirun arrived from Mecca with nothing to their name, shared everything they had with them, even to the extent of giving them a choice of their wives. Indeed, the Ansar preferred to let themselves and their families go hungry rather than to see any of their Muslim brothers go without. Abu Hurayra narrated,

أن رجلاً بات به ضيف فلم يكن عنده إلا قوته وقوت صبيانه؛ فقال لامرأته: نَوِّمي الصِّبية وأطفئي السراج وقَرّبي للضيف ما عندك؛ فنزلت هذه الآية وَيُؤْثِرُونَ عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ وَلَوْ كَانَ بِهِمْ خَصَاصَةٌ

    “A guest spent the night in the house of a man who only had enough food to feed himself and children, so he said to his wife, ‘Put the children to sleep, put out the light, and put whatever you have in front of our guest.’ Thereupon, the aya was revealed: “and prefer them to themselves even if they themselves are needy.”
    The true brother constantly looks out for his brothers and self-guards their well-being. He feels their hardship more keenly than he feels his own and offers them his aid and support without ever having to be asked. When his Muslim brother died, a man of the salaf saw to the needs of his family, making sure they had everything they needed for the next forty years. In his eyes, they were no different to his own family.
    The true brother only speaks well of his brothers, and stands up for them when others speak badly. He seeks seventy excuses for him, and when even that is not enough, he holds back his tongue. We all have faults and if that is what we concentrate on, that is all we will find. We speak out about a brother only when we have something good to say. As the Prophet said,
من كان يؤمنُ بالله واليومِ الآخر فليقلْ خيراً أوِلْيصمُتْ

 “Let whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day say something good or remain silent.” But that does mean that we overlook wrong action. Our concern for them extends to the Next World, so if we see them doing something that jeopardises their deen, we are duty bound to tell them. But always with wisdom: always in a way that criticises the act and not the man,  and always in private, not in the presence of other people. Imam Shafi‘i said,

من وعظ أخاه سراً فقد نصحه وزانه ومن وعظه علانية فقد فضحه وشانه

    “Whoever reminds his brother in secret has given him nasiha and honoured him, but whoever reminds him in public has disgraced and dishonoured him.”
    This is the brotherhood which exists between us and to which the past month of Ramadan, and most especially the day of Eid, has borne witness. And this is the brotherhood that we must strengthen at every turn and carry with us throughout the rest of the year and throughout of the rest of our lives. It is what gives our strength and makes us like a well-built wall with no gaps for our enemies to exploit. It is what makes us unstoppable.
    We ask Allah to join our hearts together and make us once again a single body. We ask Him to strengthen the ties between us and to increase our love for each other inwardly and outwardly. We ask Him to bless all our brothers who are struggling and give them victory, and all our brothers who have died and fill their graves with light and baraka. And we ask Him to join us with those whom we love in the Garden, and place in the company of His Noble Messenger.

إِنَّ اللهَ وَمَلَائِكَتَهُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ، يَا أَيُهَا الذِينَ آمَنُواْ صَلُّواْ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلِّمُواْ تَسْلِيماً. اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ وَبَارِكْ عَلَيْهِ وَعَلَى آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ  أَجْمَعِينَ.
وَارْضَ اللَّهُمَّ عَنِ الْخُلَفَاءِ الرَّاشِدِينَ أَبِي بَكْرٍ وَعُمَرَ وَعُثْمَانَ وَعَلِيٍّ، وَعن عائشةَ وسائر أزواج النبي، وَعَنْ سَائِرِ الصَّحَابَةِ أَجْمَعِينَ، خُصُوصاً اِلأَنْصَارَ مِنْهُمْ وَالمُهَاجِرِينَ، وَعَنِ التَّابِعِينَ وَتَابِعِي التَّابِعِينَ وَمَنْ تَبِعَهُمْ بِإِحْسَانٍ إِلَى يَوْمِ الدِّينِ.
اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِ وُلَاةَ أُمُورِ المُسْلِمِينَ لِمَا يُرْضِيكَ وَلِاتِّبَاعِ سُنَّةِ نَبِيِّكَ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَثَبِّتْ أَقْدَامَهُمْ عَلَى الصِّرَاطِ المُسْتَقِيمِ، وَأَصْلِحْهُمْ يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِينَ.
اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَى شَيْخِنَا، وَعَلَى أَمِيرِنَا، وَعَلَى جَمِيعِ أُمَرَاءِ وَزُعَمَاءِ المُسْلِمِينَ. 
اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَى المُسْلِمِينَ فِي هَذِهِ المَدِينَةِ، وَوَفِّقْهُمْ لِمَا تُحِبُّهُ وَتَرْضَاهُ يَا أَكْرَمَ الأَكْرَمِينَ.
اللَّهُمَّ أَعِزَّ الإِسْلَامَ وَالمُسِْلمِينَ (3) وَاخْذُلِ الْكُفْرَ وَالْكَافِرِينَ، وَانْصُرِ المُجَاهِدِينَ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ. وَاجْعَلْ كَلِمََتَكَ هِيَ العُلْيَا وَكَلِمَةَ الْكُفْرِ هِيَ السُّفْلَى.
رَبَّنَا ءَاتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقَِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ.
إِنَّ اللهَ يَامُرُ بِالْعَدْلِ وَالإِحْسَانِ وَإِيتَاءِ ذِي الْقُرْبَى، وَيَنْهَى عَنِ الْفَحْشَاءِ وَالمُنكَرِ وَالْبَغْيِ، يَعِظُكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَذَّكَّرُونَ، وَلَذِكْرُ اللهِ أَكْبَرُ وَاللهُ يَعْلَمُ مَا تَصْنَعُونَ. وَقُومُواْ إِلَى صَلاتِكُمْ يَرْحَمُكُمُ اللهُ.